a fact that women should know

Here's the truth, ladies.

Being pretty doesn't keep a man. 

Being honest doesn't keep a man. 

Being loyal doesn't keep a man. 

Treating a man good doesn't keep a man. 

Being there for a man doesn't keep a man. 

Caring about a man doesn't keep a man. 

Making an effort doesn't keep a man. 

Paying attention to a man doesn't keep a man. 

Spending time with a man doesn't keep a man.

You could have the best intentions, you could have the most sincere feelings, and you could be a good woman and you still wouldn't be able to keep a man because ...

THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP A MAN IS IF THAT MAN WANTS TO BE KEPT BY YOU. 

You can't force a man to be with you. You can't beg a man to stay with you. You can't love a man into loving you.

With a man, you could tell he wants to be kept when the relationship gets hard and he does everything to fight for you because a man only fights for a girl he wants to belong to so if he isn't fighting for you when things get hard, then that means he doesn't want to be kept by you anymore.

The moral of this? Don't hold on to a man who doesn't want to be kept by you. No, you're not giving up on him. It's him who gave up on you, and it's you who shouldn't waste any more time than you already have. 

Know when it's time to let go, know when it's time to walk away, and know when it's time for him to be unkept.....

*Gambar sekadar hiasan*
Taken at Twelve Apostle, Melbourne 130516

The strongest girls always fall the hardest

You don’t even have to have been in a real and legitimate relationship with her. You didn’t even have to utter those three magic words that everyone waits to hear in romance. You didn’t even have to put labels to what you had. You didn’t have to call her your girlfriend. All you needed to do was express the slightest interest in her and that was more than enough...

You only needed to let her know that you actually had the potential to be something special. You only needed to give her the smallest glimpse of hope, and she took it without hesitation. A few deep gazes into her eyes, a subtle caress of her skin, and an innocent kiss on her cheek, and you had her hooked. 

It was a matter of reeling her in and keeping her with you for the rest of your life...

However, don’t think for one second that she’s weak because you found it a little too easy to actually keep her on a leash. She isn’t some weakling that you can expect to use and abuse at any moment’s notice. She’s not desperate for love and affection although that’s what you may be inclined to believe. In fact, she’s a very strong and independent woman who can stand her own ground and do perfectly fine without you. 

The reason why she bit into this “relationship” so hard is because she’s just a naturally passionate person. She knows that she’s opening herself up to getting hurt and betrayed. She knows that she’s prone to being disappointed a lot. But she doesn’t care. She knows that this is the only way that love should be done – without holding back. She doesn’t want to have any reservations. If she falls and gets hurt, then she’s okay because she knows she has the strength to pick herself back up again.

And after all, she knows that the fact life is no ain't fairy tales... she will always stand to her own voice and head to protect herself...

So if she comes on a little stronger than most women you know, then that shouldn’t be seen as a bad thing. You shouldn’t be intimidated by confidence. You shouldn’t shy away from a woman who wants to express her intimacy for you in various ways. You shouldn’t turn away the girl who has so much love in her heart. She is as strong as they come even though she falls so hard and so easily. Remember that only the strongest of men truly deserve her..

Note: Another masterpiece of a true story of a dreamer wearing a nightmare dress😓

Love yourself (not Justin Bieber 's version)

Mistakes happen. To everyone. No matter what you look like, who you are, what you do for a living, you've made mistakes. We all have and they all suck. I look back on some of my mistakes and literally cringe. But you know what? It doesn't do you any good to focus on them. Take what you can from them, learn from them, and then move the hell on...
Surprisingly you will love and respect yourself more and more...

Have Faith part 3

Kau tahu salah satu cara nak tenang?
Dengan berlapang dada, lalu kau menang.
Bukan untuk mereka, tapi untuk kau juga...

Have Faith part 2

Even if its yours you cannot do anything to make it stay....

have faith

Sepertimana mudah Tuhan ubah yang pernah menyayang untuk meninggalkan, pasti kau tak sangka mudah juga suatu hari Tuhan pudarkan sayang yang tak mampu kau tinggalkan. Have faith.

keep moving...keep walking...keep running...

In my colorful and short life, I realized that not everything is supposed to become something beautiful and long lasting. Sometimes people come into my life to show me what is right and what is wrong, to show me who should I could be, to teach me to love myself, to teach me to protect my heart first...to protect my kids... to make me feel better for a little while, or to just be someone to walk with at night and spill my life to whatever that he or she feel good with it.

Not everyone is going to stay forever...the feeling towards somebody will never ever be lasting.

But at the end.. I know Ibu & Ayah will always be a place that I could be return to... and I know my husband will be the one who will love me unconditionally. Insyallah..

Whatever white and black things happened in my life, I still have to keep on going and thank them for what they have given me... joy, happiness, sadness, excitement, painful, sympathy, empathy..meaningless and any of related adjectives words.

Keep moving....keep moving....keep moving...

#moveonedt2